心情！

曾经拥有那片蓝蓝的天空，
渐渐地也被乌云弥漫了，
是意味着雨天的到来，
又或是晴天呢？
真是变化莫测的天空。。。。

Semenyih trip on 24th-26th Sep..^^

uhhu...going to serdang is not so ec..haha...especially if u took "Malaysia Public Transport" is more sucks!! standing for about 1 1/2 hours thru out the whole journey to serdang...somemore, waiting for tat stupid idiot KTM train for about 20 mins...always got technical problem 1...@#%^$%
anyway...mood become much more better after reach there n went to eat
"Kajang Satay"!! Yea...tis is d restaurant tat v went to...is reli a nice place...i think tis is "tulen" kajang satay gua...haha...

tis is d kajang satay..

guess wat all tis meat is?? v got ordered chicken, beef, mutton, and RABBIT!! OMG...(not i ordered 1) XD

After kajang satay, then v went to play Squash...wow...long time didnt sweat a lot...thanks Greg & Albert for "put water" to let me win...wahaha XD
Tis is my dinner.."butter chicken rice"...tis is also yummy...^^

The next morning, CVS brought us to eat "Wan Tan MEE" but with no wantan...lol...

Our lunch is taken at Restoran Hup Kee..

tis is "奶油虾膏"..haha..i love butter food very much...lol



tis is order by chua..."玻璃生菜"
tis is d most delicious food i f ever eat..."招牌豆腐"



after dinner, chua n greg went to f their hair cut at tis Schwarzkopf Salon..

the weird thing is...both of them like to order for tis gal to cut their hair...@.@...y ho?? i also dunno..lol

the next day, we pay a visit to THE ONE ACADEMY...tis is their galeria...

greg is on9+ing inside while chua is watching the student-made video clip..
2 silly guy...

After pointless Sunway Pyramid "gai gai"....v decided to f our tea break at tis One Nite Restaurant...



tis is their famous baked bread by using Charcoal!!

tis is d bread!! must try must try!! ^^

tis Cha Siew Pau also very delicious...will order evitime goto there...;pAfter tea break, we straight away headed to The Curve to f dinner wit Vivien Thien and her family..then v watched "G-Force" together!! walao, must watch ler!!! is reli funny n interesting..haha..mouse also playing facebook o!! so IN..haha

So, tis is our crazy n silly trip from Seremban to the end of KL...lol...waiting for our tis coming Saturday Malacca trip!! Yea! ^^

My LOVEY CUTIE nephew...JACK! ^^

yea...i wan to become LITTLE SCHUMACHER~!

pretty eyes~~~

hm...wat should i eat? i m hungry la..!!

LITTLE EINSTEIN is thinking something...^^

uhhu...my bear bear~~

he loves his bear bear very much!! ;p

adorable eyes!! ^^

he's cute! love his smile XD

my lovely popo n eldest nephew..king joe ^^ he loves ULTRAMAN so much ;p

m i a gud father in the future?! wondering...;p

ohh...CJ7...

hi..my name is YUKI~~

Genting Trip 19 September 2009

wow..tis picture is taken by me...is tis nice?? (my desktop background)

Nice to f u tis new housemate(Jack) ^^

freaking cold man...as if in a foreign country ;p



hey fatty, stop smoking la!

Long Kee ba gua!

Nice view from genting!

Always "AWAS" in the journey of ur life..!

Frenz 4ever! ^^

Haiz...smoke again..extreme addicted! ==""

Stupid greg! Do u know u can't smoke in the cable car??!

OMG...is tis the hanging style for national flag by the police?!

another pic of us..


It was a great fun to Genting after my exam wit my housemates and his friends, and also my best buddy: Gregory! (becoming fatty guy ad) lol..;p Hey bro, is time to keep ur body fit la! especially ur "1 pac"...hehe

wow...crazy nite wit greg in genting n v hang around until 630am...went to 2 casino...n greg lose in both of tat casino..no luck la...aiyoyoyo...

suddenly missed the time v went to genting wit janet, yung, xin, michael, greg n me last 2 yrs ago..time flies...miz u guys ! take k o!

妥協

你 總愛編織謊言
我 負責配合表演
所有改變 只為了進入你的世界
這情節 重複了一百遍
才發現 是你的心太野

你 劃定楚河漢界
我 不能輕易犯規
所有時間 都是先給了你優先權
不自覺 愛到不敢冒險
成了你的傀儡一年兩年
才看見我有多狼狽

愛到妥協 到頭來還是無解
綁著你不讓你飛
歷史不斷重演 我好累
愛到妥協 也無法將故事再重寫
你已下最後通牒
我躲在我的世界

你 劃定楚河漢界
我 不能輕易犯規
所有時間 都是先給了你優先權
不自覺 愛到不敢冒險
成了你的傀儡一年兩年
才看見我有多狼狽

愛到妥協 到頭來還是無解
綁著你不讓你飛
歷史不斷重演 我好累
愛到妥協 也無法將故事再重寫
你已下最後通牒
我躲在我的世界

你只是害怕一個人睡
我不想再為你掉淚
我了解 不會變 不再徘徊
開始自己的明天

愛到妥協 到頭來還是無解
綁著你不讓你飛
歷史不斷重演 我好累
愛到妥協 也無法將故事再重寫
你已下最後通牒
我躲在我的世界

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married
MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.



The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah.
These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

我們真的有愛過嗎？？？超感動~‏

年輕人喜歡上了在便利商店 打工的女孩,
他每天都會到女孩工作的店裡面買一包香菸,
漸漸的兩人開始互相熟悉,
當女孩工作感到無聊乏味的時候,或者是心情不好的時候,
年輕人就會出現, 他會陪女孩說說話, 或是逗女孩開心.
女孩也知道年輕人似乎喜歡上自己了,可是自己已經有很要好的男友,
面對年輕人如此的關懷,自己也不知道如何婉拒他.
有一天商店外頭運來一台娃娃機,女孩很喜歡裡面的娃娃,
年輕人知道以後,就去夾了一隻娃娃送給女孩,
當天他終於對她表白,希望女孩能接受他,
不知如何是好的女孩,只能殘忍的告訴年輕人,她和他是不可能的,
因為她已經有深愛的男友了,
年輕人聽了之後默然的點點頭,
只是自己對女孩的喜歡已經超出自己所預期的,
他不死心的問女孩,自己真的沒有機會了嗎?
善良的女孩不忍心看到原本開朗風趣的年輕人變得如此消沉寡歡,
於是她手指著娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃說,
除非你夾滿100個娃娃,而且一天只能夾一個.

原來女孩希望用時間來沖淡年輕人對自己的感情,
她心想,一天夾1個娃娃,最快也要三個多月之後才有100個,
而且年輕人應該不會真的有耐心夾滿100個娃娃吧!
這三個月的時間,她會盡量與男孩保持距離,
她決心讓兩人恢復到店員和顧客的關係.
年輕人還是每天到商店來,可是女孩開始變得冷淡,
他總是試著聊一些女孩有興趣的話題,不過女孩依然愛理不理.
因為她知道唯有這樣做,才不會讓年輕人越陷越深.
年輕人或許是感覺到女孩的用意,
於是他每天夾娃娃,
有時運氣好夾一兩次就中了,
有時運氣差,零用錢花光了也夾不到,只好跟朋友借錢繼續夾,一直到夾 中為止.
無論花多少錢花多少時間,他每天一定會夾一個娃娃,
只是他無法與女孩分享夾到娃娃的喜悅,
因為他知道女孩有意要避開他,
為了怕引響到女孩的情緒,他只能在櫥窗外頭微笑的對女孩點點頭.

好幾次,看到年輕人因為夾到娃娃興高采烈的樣子,
女孩都想要衝出去對他說,
我是騙你的,你不要再夾了,就算你真的夾到100個娃娃,我跟你也是不 可能的!
但是一想到年輕人希望破滅的樣子,女孩就於心不忍,
她只能不斷猶豫.

就這樣1天,2天,3天..,年輕人的娃娃數量不斷的累積,
而女孩刻意與年輕人保持距離的結果,則是讓自己在工作的時後更顯孤 單.
不知道是哪一天,女孩子因為在外地工作的男友無法回來陪她過18歲的 生日,
與男友吵了一架,
而那天年輕人仍一如往常的來到便利商店,
不同的是那天年輕人竟走進了店裡,
他對女孩說,
可不可以破例讓他在今天夾兩個娃娃回去,
可是因為和男友吵架而心情不佳的女孩,很生氣的當場拒絕了他.
就這樣,年輕人走到娃娃機旁,默默的夾了一個娃娃回去,
在年輕人離開的時後,他對櫥窗裡的女孩看了一眼.
隔天以後,年輕人再也沒來夾娃娃了.
剛開始女孩雖然覺得奇怪,但是仍然慶幸自己終於放下了心中的大石頭 .
可是漸漸的,她突然覺得不習慣,
因為那個每天都會為了她來夾娃娃的熟悉背影,
好像空氣一樣就消失不見了,
這時女孩才發現到,
原來她心中的失落感遠遠超過年輕人所帶給她的負擔.
只是一切都...
女孩開始想念以前年輕人來店裡陪她聊天的點點滴滴.
哪怕他只是站在櫥窗外頭沉默不語的夾娃娃,
似乎都會帶給她莫名的安全感.
所以女孩每天上班時,總是不斷的抬頭張望,
那個熟悉的身影來了嗎?
可惜的是,年輕人始終沒出現,只剩下那台沒人使用的娃娃機.

有一天,女孩下班後,在店門口遇到了以前常和年輕人一起來的朋友,
她焦急的問他年輕人的下落,可是年輕人的朋友則是一臉黯然,
他帶女孩來到年輕人的家,
當他開啟年輕人的房間的門時,映入女孩眼簾的是
一群娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃,
以及躺在床上動也不動的年輕人.

原來年輕人的脊椎有病,必須要開刀才能保住生命,
可是開刀有一半的機率會失敗而導致全身癱瘓,
年輕人在開刀的前一天晚上,也就是女孩和男友大吵一架的那天,
希望女孩給他機會夾2個娃娃,因為他已經累積有98個了,
然而卻遭到女孩的回絕,
隔天之後年輕人手術不幸失敗變成植物人,

年輕人的母親拿了一封信給女孩,那是年輕人在手術之前寫好的:
其實我早就知道,就算夾到了100個娃娃,
妳也不可能會喜歡我,
我之所以這麼做並不是故意要造成妳的困擾,
而是希望在我有限的時間裡,
證明我曾經很用心的去愛一個人,
這樣就足夠了,
如果妳看到了這封信,
那表示我再也無法為你夾娃娃了,
對不起,
或許我的努力還不夠吧,
沒能夾到100個娃娃親手送給你..
女孩看著床邊的99個絨毛娃娃,那是99顆無法承受的真心,
眼眶裡的淚水早已決堤而出...
隔天女孩來到年輕人的家,
她將第100個絨毛娃娃放到年輕人的手中,
這時已經變成植物人的他,
眼睛流下了淚水...

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緣份 是一種很 炫的東西~~
它通常是在不知不覺中出現。
當它存在之時，你可能不會珍惜；期待它到來時，它卻一直都不出現 。
所以，從此刻開始，大家要懂得珍惜它，珍惜生活在你 周圍的所有人，無論是朋友、愛人、甚至於家人.......Ｃ~Ｈ~Ｅ~Ｒ~Ｉ~Ｓ~Ｈ
在你一生當中，能交到多少個知心朋友 ??
雖然你們實際上才認識不久，不過感覺上卻像好久好久 。
你有這種朋友嗎???
就是你們很談得來，什麼都分享，什麼都聊，一輩子也 不厭倦的那種。
如果你有這種朋友，趕快對他說:這一生中最知心的朋 友就是你，絕對錯不了!!~而且永遠也不會改變 !~

ＩＮＴＩＭＡＴＥ　ＦＲＩＥＮＤＳ~~~
我們 有緣 而相識
我們 有緣 而相聚
我們 有緣 而交換心靈
我們應該彼此 珍惜 相處的每一刻
更應該 珍惜 你現在所擁有的一切
此生才不會悔憾

ＬＯＶＥ??!!
是愛??是喜歡??還是只是欣賞??
愛是百分之百 ，你 無時無刻 都在想、思念著他。
喜歡有百分之八十 ，你 常常 都會想到他、思念他。
而欣賞只剩百分之六十 ,你 只有偶爾 會想到、和思念著他。
欣賞會讓人積極，喜歡會讓人開心，
但愛卻會讓人傷心。
當你欣賞一個人 ，你不見得 會喜歡他，也不見得會愛上他。
當你喜歡的一個人 ，有可能 你只是欣賞他，但你也有可能會愛上他。
當你愛一個人時 ，你一定是 基於欣賞，慢慢變成喜歡，然後最後成了愛。
當你和他搭訕時，剛開始那只是出於“欣賞” 。
當他們交往一段時間後，可能會變成“喜歡”，但也可 能永遠只能停留在“欣賞”，至於“愛”，很難說，說不定你一輩子都找不到。


ＬＩＫＥ~~~~
有人問：你為什麼喜歡一個人？
我只能夠說出為什麼不喜歡一個人，卻說 不出為什麼喜歡一個人。
喜歡一個人，是一種感覺。 不喜歡一個 人，卻是事實。
事實容易解釋，感覺卻難以言喻。
愛情是忽然有一個人，我們覺得一見如故， 我們的內 分泌忽然起了翻天覆地的變化，很很想靠近她，想擁抱她。
以後，無論快樂或哀愁，我們也想不起當初為什麼愛她 。
因只有當我們不愛一個人時，才會找出不愛她的原因。 　　　　　

ＡＤＭＩＲＥ？!？
每個人都有屬於自己的一個故事。
在這故事理，你應該努力地演好自己的角色。
如果劇本是自己寫的，我相信，這個世界裡再不會有悲 劇出現。
只可惜， 編劇一定是兩個人。
只要其中一方有了變話，這齣戲任你再怎 麼努力去演，到了最後只會成為悲劇。
一生當中，會有很多跟你合演的人，
但最終，只有一個可以幫你完成這齣劇 =)

ＦＲＩＥＮＤＳＨＩＰ=)
珍惜現在所擁有的，總比到時候完全失去了再也沒得的 好吧^_^

Two Is Better Than One--- Taylor Swift

Two Is Better Than One lyrics



I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life
And I thought hey
You know this could be something
'Cause everything you do and words you say
You know that it all takes my breath away
And now I'm left with nothing

'Cause maybe it's true, that I can't live without you
Well maybe two is better than one
There's so much time, to figure out the rest of my life
And you've already got me coming undone
And I'm thinking two, is better than one

I remember every look upon your face,
The way you roll your eyes, the way you taste
You make it hard for breathing
'Cause when I close my eyes and drift away
I think of you and everythings okay
And finally now, we're leaving

And maybe it's true, that I can't live without you
Well maybe two is better than one
There's so much time, to figure out the rest of my life
And you've already got me coming undone
And I'm thinking two, is better than one

Yeah, yeah

I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life
And I thought hey

Maybe it's true, that I can't live without you
Maybe two is better than one
There's so much time, to figure out the rest of my life
And you've already got me coming undone
And I'm thinking

Oooh I can't live without you
'Cause baby two is better than one
There's so much time, to figure out the rest of my life
And I've figured out with all that's said and done
Two, is better than one