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Thursday, April 30, 2009

Do u knw hw much does it hurt when u love like tis & being treated like tis?

在佳礼网站读到这么一篇文章, 觉得90%都说对了! 你觉得呢??

Today She made a promise
She will not leave you unless you leave her,
she is very lucky that she found you
One Day After "Today"

When you never lied to her, even she'll get mad at
you
She tells you that she doesn't believe in you all
along

When you gave her your everything hoping to
make her happy and fill her life with colours
She tells you that you're disturbing her life

When you tell her not to do something because
you wanted to protect her
She tells you that you're trying to take away her
freedom and controlling her

When you push all your friends aside and spend
all your time with her when she's boring
She tells you're taking all her time

When you tell her that you cried for her even you're
a guy and you never cry even the sky falls on you
She tells you that its not a big deal because she
cried too

When you dont even look at other girls because of
her
She tells you that you should do that and its your
part as a bf, but she will never tell you how good
are you to her

When you ask her what's wrong when you see
she's not happy, when you wanted to share her
pain
She tells you that you dont understand and kept
everything inside

When you comfort her when she's unhappy or
nervous
She thanked you with a kiss, but in the end, she
tells you that you never comfort her all along

When you sacrifice for her
She'll be happy for a day or two, after that she'll
start to forget, no matter how big the sacrifice was

When you tell her that you're worried about her
She gets mad at you and tells you that you don't
believe her

When you finally get enough courage to sing to her
in front of her friends with roses and a heart made
with candles
She tells you that you're giving her pressure and
talk to you in a rudely

When you treat her better than anyone else in the
whole world including your family and gave her all
your time, love and care

When you never betray her, be very loyal to her

When you never leave her aside and always telling
her that you're always by her side no matter what

When you almost lost your life for her, but you
sincerely felt that its worth it even if you've
lost it,
because of her
She give u reasons that make no sense and tells
you that you're the one who ended the relationship
and whatever you've did
are mistakes.

When love is around, treasure it, NEVER NEVER
forget about it, or else the one who will be losing is
you.
You can't see how much does your love ones
really loves you just with your eyes, you see and
feel it with your heart

When you realize that how much you're being
loved, appreciate it and share the beautiful feeling
with the one you're getting it from
Love is born to be shared, not to be kept within,
else it'll turn into something ugly.
Sometimes when you hate someone for making
your life hard, actually that person is sacrificing
him/herself to bring you a better life
and kept quiet even though the person is being
treated as the bad person by you while you didn't
realize the life that you're enjoying now
is actually brought by the person who u hated.

When you can love someone as much as u hate
them and as much as they hurt you, its weird lol
What still remains now are only fragments and
only can be left within my heart.
Human beings are naturally hard to be satisfied
At least try not be greedy and selfish, you're
considered very lucky when you're being loved and
when someone really cares about you, be grateful
before you realize you're the one who's losing
something important that you may never be able to
get it back again.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

5个多数情侣犯的沟通错误

有没有想过为何你跟他总是为了无谓的琐事爭吵?其实答案很简单──因为两人之间沟通不良。让我们来看看该如何突破这个沟通上的窘境。
错误1.话总是说到一半当你有件重要的事情要跟男友说时,记得仔细把话说清楚。反过来说,当男友告诉你什么事情时,有什么不清楚或听不懂的就当面提出来,不要让对方以为你有听懂,到最后你又好像什么都不知道地跑来再问他一遍。
错误2.时机不对如果你有一个非常重要的事情要跟他討论,试著挑你们两个当时都在做不用大脑思考的事情的时候,这样不仅可专心,你们也因为手边有简单的事情做,而不需要盯著对方那样严肃地討论事情。
错误3.事前恐嚇他如果你平常习惯在跟他討论事情的时候先帮他打剂强心剂,像是说“准备好接受这个坏消息”之类的话,不妨试著採取柔性一点方式,像是说“这其实是没什么大不了的事情,你有没有想要趁这个周末帮我外婆过80大寿呢?”我们保证他会冷静下来给你令你满意的答案。
错误4.变成你在唱独角戏简单扼要把故事说完,因为他的脑袋没办法一下子处里那么多琐碎的细节。男人专心听人说话的极限只有3分钟。
错误5.什么话不该说有时你不该一五一十跟另一半说出你对他的不满。並不是所有看不顺眼的事情都得说出来或拿来討论。有时候挑对方的小毛病只会让对方更不高兴,包容是所有情侣都应该学习的一课。

决定恋爱成败的7关键词

害羞:没有一点害羞,女人看起来会像个风月老手,而男人则更像个情场浪子。所谓风情万种的女人一定不是风骚的女人,要有那种介乎女孩和女人之间的纯情姿態。令男人疯狂著迷的女人一定是犹抱琵琶半遮面的,在恋爱中,懂得適当的害羞十分关键。
理解:毋庸置疑,这是关键的一环,爱情双方如果没有相互的理解,一切恋爱都得宣告破裂。
包容:懂得包容对方的缺点,帮助他(她)改正,那你一定就是掌握了恋爱秘笈的制胜法宝的。
吃醋:恋爱时如果不吃醋,那说明你爱得不够深。但若是醋劲儿过大,那也只能是劳燕分飞的下场。吃不吃醋不是关键,能吃多少才是最重要的。
撒娇:男人喜欢会撒娇的女人,这会让他们感觉自己更像男人,更具有主动性。但一味的撒娇就成了任性,而任性的女人,男人多半都唯恐避之不及。
劈腿:朝三暮四的男人令全天下女人所不齿,三心二意的女人同样令男人深恶痛绝。当然,玩劈腿也是为了在比较中寻找一个最適合自己的对象,但你的功力到底有多深是成败的关键。当然,在爱情里,一旦有了劈腿现象的发生,百分之九十九,这场恋爱得玩完!
考验:如今的恋爱只要一跟“考验”掛上鉤,多半得完蛋。毕竟,要考验说明你不自信,对爱情对自己对存在一些疑虑。还是那句话:不要考验爱情,因为爱情根本就经不起考验!

女人应该要知道的10件事

2009-01-19 08:21 (Sinchew-i)

1. 爱人就是爱人,只能去爱,不要拿来比较。爱他一定要尊重他,再生气也不可以出口伤人,言语的伤口有时一生都在流血。
2. 不可以整天追问对方爱不爱你。他若真爱你,你不必问;他若不爱你,难道他会对你明確的承认吗?他对你的爱,用心去体会就品味出来了。
3. 不要摆脸色给对方看,对方性格上会有缺点,生活细节会与你不同,令你不满意,但人怎么可能是完美的,宽容是做人和对待婚姻应有的態度。
4. 男人对自己的尊严看的比什么都重要,不管在私下他有多么的宠爱你,多么怕你,在人前一定要给足面子。
5. 男人大都喜欢吹牛,你別戳破他的这点小把戏,他们这样可以让自己得到一点力量,找到一点自信。
6. 男人骨子里全喜欢美女,看到美女会目不转睛或回头行注目礼,你別认为他不爱你,爱看美女是男人的本能,与品格无关。
7. 不要太虚荣和太功利,物质的追求是无止境的,你是活出自己,不是活给別人看的。
8. 男人为何喜欢温柔的女人,因为他们的內心很脆弱,不像外表般坚强,他们需要妻子的柔情似水,轻怜蜜爱。
9. 家庭永远是第一,我们工作是为了更快乐的和家人在一起,享受生活,享受生命很重要。
10. 爱人的父母就是自己的父母,將心比心,爱屋及乌,心理上对老人依恋亲密,老人会感受到这份真心的。

女性出轨8个危险徵兆

2009-03-12 07:18 (Sinchew i-live)

女性一走到肉体出轨这一步,往往都难有回头的,基本以分手告终。所以男人最好能在她走到这一步前阻止她。

生活规律突然变化:一个女人,如果正常的生活规律有了些微妙的变化,往往意味著她的身边出现了不该出现的人,比如到时间没回家,大半夜上网聊天。

接电话时神情微妙:她经常离你远远的,或者说话口气很谨慎,接你打电话也没啥热情,但对某个男人,忽然变得异常温柔、异常客气,说话时间也特別长。

变得注重化妆打扮:她跟你出门素面朝天,跟別人出门则特別注意妆容,穿的衣服也比平时更漂亮,说明她要增加对那个男性的性魅力。

经常借口推掉约会:本来你们整天粘糊在一起,渐渐的你们的约会次数少了,她常参加各种聚会。你如果问得紧了,她还生气嫌你管得太严。

经常和別的男人约会:她会说只是普通朋友,一起吃个饭,看看电影而已等等。普通朋友?!听到这句话,你千万不要有任何包容的心胸。

经常提起以前的男友:她常常提起以前的男友,还经常收到以前男友的电话、短信,如果你有心的话会发现她还保留著以前的男友的情书。

不在乎是否有女人喜欢你:女人真爱你的话,会在乎你身边每个女人的每个眼神、每一句话背后的含义,然后紧张兮兮的要你招供。

经常赞美別的男人:她会毫无顾忌的夸赞一个男人,经常能提起別的男人的生活细节,不顾你的感受,这说明她对那个男人特別瞭解。